Estar GathuWho or what made me a monster?Emotional abuse is crippling. It robs a person of their self-esteem, their ability to think rationally, their confidence, their…7 min read·Mar 19, 2021----
Estar GathuBuilding and keeping a trusted circle of friendsLots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you need is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down5 min read·Sep 13, 2020----
Estar GathuKenya’s Family Party PoliticsThis time last year I was in Kenya swinging from one party to another. This year all I got are travel refunds and e-vouchers… thank you KQ…6 min read·Aug 18, 2020----
Estar GathuShiny new credit card or a gateway to hellYou have lived in the UK for many years, but you are still unsure of what you want to do with your life. Your friends who have made it…5 min read·Aug 15, 2020----
Estar GathuMy LGBTQ life in KenyaDisclaimer: the following fictionalised story happened to a real person; names and places have been omitted to ensure anonymity and…5 min read·Jul 14, 2020----
Estar GathuMy LBGTQ life in KenyaDisclaimer: This 2-part fictionalised story happened to a real person; names and places have been omitted to ensure anonymity and maintain…5 min read·Jul 7, 2020----
Estar GathuMy fractured mindThe problem with the stigma around mental health and mental illness is really about the stories that we tell ourselves as a society.4 min read·Jul 6, 2020----
Estar GathuBlack Lives MatterI had a different post prepared for today and as I polished it, the memorial service for George Floyd aired in the background. I couldn’t…4 min read·Jun 5, 2020----
Estar GathuGod must be a manI read an article advocating God to be a woman, the evidence given wasn’t quite convincing as I’d have liked. Traditionally, God has been…5 min read·Jun 2, 2020----